We’re similar in age and have a lot of the same interests, which doesn’t tend to happen with most of the patients. 1-800-SUICIDE (1-800-784-2433) - National Hope Network Toll-Free, 24/7 hotline for emergency suicide information, 1-800-273-TALK (1-800-273-8255) - National Suicide Prevention Lifeline, 24/7 free and confidential support for people in distress, 1-866-488-7386 - The Trevor HelpLine - Specializing in LGBTQ youth suicide prevention & help, Child Helpline International - International Child Helpline Network, RAINN - International Sexual Assault Helplines, Mental Health Europe - Helplines for Young People. These also come out when he’s unwell and psychotic, there’s always that touch of his kindness it in. No part of this website can be reproduced in any form without prior written consent.All rights reserved © var year = new Date();var yyyy = year.getFullYear();document.write(yyyy); RawConfessions.com. A doctor dating his patient is generally considered a breach of medical ethics. And to top it off the girl who did my inside ultrasound was beautiful. I work in a hospital with patients who have been found not criminally responsible due to mental disorder. My surgeon is more than old enough to be my grandfather, so no crush there. One of the drs I went to a while back was from south africa, and he wasn't attractive at all! local policies and laws. A friend told me he thinks it's normal to fall in love with your doctors. Without affecting his care, I’ve been trying to keep my distance a bit. I have a loving wife and a career that, while it doesn’t pay that much, keeps me happy. that works everytime, lol. This particular patient has been here for about 5 months. RawConfessions user (Login required), Your Message (please type your comment here). 0 comments. With Free Quiz Creator Tool/Software, the developing of new quiz about any subject is a lot easier and time saving. I have a gi who I don't exactly have a crush on but I get along with, the surgeon I definitely have a crush on, and the assistant surgeon who examined my stoma suspecting a parastomal hernia in the ER I definitely fell in love with. I was so embarassed. Over 1 MILLION CONFESSIONS and growing.The World is waiting... By submitting the form, you acknowledged that you are or over 18 years old and you will follow When you guys talk, do you find him/her flirting with you? And out of nowhere, you’re crushing on your co-worker, your friend or even your neighbor. This is light and off-topic but definitely part of my ostomy experience! If this person ever asked you out, what would your reaction be? I know crushes are natural/normal, I’ve just never had this happen with a patient. I am rather fond of him in a grandfatherly kind of way, so if he was closer to my age then who knows? I work in a hospital with patients who have been found not criminally responsible due to mental disorder. Posted Mar 30, 2019 18:44 by anonymous Do you think this person is hot? He specifically comes to say hi or bye to me when he sees me arriving or leaving, and I don’t often see him do that with others. About Quizz Creator. He is the one I trusted enough to take his recommendation on surgery etc.... he is about. Oooo an accent! The horror. Guess what? I have a crush on someone I’m not supposed to have a crush on. I thought she was nuts, but she did help motivate me to switch docs.... and well, it's not a sexual thing w/me (not so into men), but I do just admire him so much, there is something there that's intense for me. Post Edited (esoR) : 11/21/2011 7:26:03 PM (GMT-7). It's adorable. It’s very taboo to even discuss this with staff (even though it’s normal, many people have them, they go away eventually, etc) so I haven’t been able to share this with anyone. he he. Short, fat, kind of bald, but I could have listened to him talk for hours, I loved when he explained things, lol. Maybe you’re even married. After you create your account, you'll be able to customize options and access all our 15,000 new posts/day with fewer ads. I’m 40 and married with three children. I have a gi who I don't exactly have a crush on but I get along with, the surgeon I definitely have a crush on, and the assistant surgeon who examined my stoma suspecting a parastomal hernia in the ER I definitely fell in love with. Take this quiz! Add comment as: I’m such a childish idiot. I think its normal, its called transference, I think. You’ve been in a relationship for years. Please register to participate in our discussions with 2 million other members - it's free and quick! This particular patient has been here for about 5 months. BUT the older one who saved my life was like a grandfather figure who stepped in to give me more time; sort of like in that old TV series Touched by An Angel. If you are in need of help please contact people who care and please remember suicide is never the answer. I think of him outside of work. By submitting the form, you acknowledged that you are or over 18 years old and you will follow local policies and laws. These doctors hold tremendous power and influence over the course of our lives and health, I can see where it would be normal for feelings of admiration, etc to develop and possibly feel like something more at some point. He goes out of his way to do things he doesn’t like, just because I might be there. I’m a high school boy who has a crush on a girl, (and she might have a crush on me) but I think that she’s a bad person, I‘m afraid that the girl I had a crush on has a crush on the other girl I had a crush on before her, I haven’t had a crush in a year and i had a crush in her before and I haven’t had one since this is weird cause usually when I’m not into a girl anymore I’ve usually got another one bad now, I think I have a crush on someone who I probably shouldn't have a crush on. Hi, I am an MSII but I worked as an RN in the PACU and OR for 5 years. 132 views | The shock. in the room he comes I'm in my little paper gown and all the women know how awful the stirrups are! We’ve actually chatted quite a bit over the last few weeks and even hung out on our building’s roof one night. The resident Gawker therapist, Anonymous, is a licensed therapist who treats many different patients, but specializes in teens and couples therapy. Yes it would be inappropriate. I always get the cute doctors whenever I look terrible or have to talk about, Nothing worse than a cute doctor when you're being asked about. He shares his philosophy on life with me and talks about his beliefs and thoughts on the world. Dehn (whose really informative--and fun to read-- health blog is worth checking out) says, as crazy as it sounds, it's normal to develop a "crush" on your doctor. I must take after my 85 year old mum - she goes regularly to see a psychiatrist after suffering a breakdown and the last time we saw a rather young sort of handsome 30ish year old and she said to h im "how old are you..... you are handsome arent you..."" etc . Not cool at all. Since he first got here we’ve had a good rapport. Check out our forum, blogs, jobs, CME courses and articles. You can probably already tell that I have a huge crush on him. I went down such a bad road with surgeons (my defendant ones), the "crush" scene is totally not in my realm with any doctor. I didn't really feel that, my surgeon was not really my type and both my gis were older. He’s also pretty attractive. MomMD is the largest and best site connecting women in medicine. However, right now I’m deeply conflicted and at my wits’ end. She said, "You have to be in love w/your gi doc." One of them was so handsome he looked like Elvis. When I was recovering there was a group of doctors/interns who would come by every day and talk to me...all of them were young men...and good looking. Some forums can only be seen by registered members. He “chooses” me over other staff for certain activities or things to help him with. I spend more time talking to him than I do other patients at times. Anonymous Boyfriend [m28] did something shitty and I [F25] am having a hard time with it. You guys have been friends for awhile, but you just aren't sure if you have a crush on him/her. My mom absolutely has a crush on my surgeon. He was the new dr! He was very unwell when he first got here, but even then, it was clear he was a really good guy. Do you always feel a need to impress him/her? I try and not do anything more for him than I would any other patient but I do feel the need some times. Do you like it? Here’s my advice: Don’t touch anything until you are very well versed in sterile technique and if you are going to pass out back up against a wall so you don’t comprimise the sterile field. Dear Alice, I just moved into a new apartment last month and I recently met my next door neighbor and sparks flew. I think sometimes he notices it too. I’ve been noticing for awhile that I look forward to seeing him. SWOON... yes i think i near enough chatted up some handsome doctors in the past usually when high on drugs or something..  unfortunately they are always juniors and move on somewhere else...i think i said something like "you are much too handsome to be a doctor" or something like that lol! Join our community today! 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